About Me
I have always been fascinated by people. I am passionate about understanding how others make sense of their lives and the world around them. I have known since I was a child that my work was supporting others.
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I am a Master's level social worker and psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the field of mental health and addictions. I have worked in numerous interdisciplinary clinic settings with adult and child psychiatrists, family physicians and midwives.
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I have training, supervision and competency in the following models:
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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (AHS, 2018-19)
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Grief Support (AHS, 2019)
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Narrative Therapy (Narrative Collective, 2019)
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Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (Linehan, 2020)
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Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (Harris, 2020)
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Accelerated Resolution Therapy (Rosensweig, 2020)
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Acceptance and Commitment Therapy for Trauma (Harris, 2022)
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Emotion Focused Therapy (Johnson, 2023)
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Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (Dr. Taktin, 2024)
I believe:
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Pain is an inevitable part of the human experience. Suffering is not.
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People are incredibly resilient. It is often an attempt to avoid or manage pain that creates more suffering in our lives. We can change.
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Change is a process and not an outcome. Our lives can improve simply by taking aim and finding direction.
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There is no separation between mind and body. Emotions are involuntary automatic responses in our bodies. Trauma lives in our bodies and healing takes place in our bodies.
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Trauma takes place in the context of relationship and can be healed through relationship.
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My work in this field began with counselling youth in group homes. I continued with the same organization as a social worker in the school system. Working in an interdisciplinary setting helped me understand the importance of collaborative, client-centered care.
My passion for supporting families in a holistic way ultimately led me to birth work and teaching yoga. For over ten years, I supported more than 400 families in their journey to parenthood. Over a decade of watching bodies and witnessing birth has influenced my belief that mind and body are one. Healing requires integration and connection.
My experience as a doula and yoga teacher informed my therapy practice in a myriad of ways. I know how to hold space for overwhelming joy and pain without trying to fix it. I know how to facilitate a deep sense of trust in one's self. I know that there is a brilliant inner wisdom that emerges if we are patient, if we give it space.
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My own lived experiences also informs my practice. I am privileged in many ways, I am a white, English speaking, heterosexual person, with access to higher education. My basic needs have always been met. However, I have also been a single mother for most of my adult life, having my son (pictured below) at a young age. Further, I identify as neurodivergent in a world that is not set up for different brains. Most profoundly, I have experienced the loss of a close family member to the opioid crisis. Navigating many of these challenges has directly informed how I perceive and treat clients and has enabled a type of empathy and understanding that I wouldn't otherwise be able to access.
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My most recent passion in treating couples is also inspired by my lived experience. Since age 40, I have had the privilege of being in a secure functioning relationship. This was quite the revelation having been involved in less well functioning relationships most of my adult life. I am intimately familiar with the pain and suffering of being caught in the anxious-avoidant dance and truly believe that we can learn how to do things differently, with the right type of support.
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My two most influential guides are my children Aidan and Ivy. Aim was actually my daughter's idea - she spelled out our initials together in her alphabet cereal one morning. Catchy, simple and a brilliant metaphor for the therapeutic process, I went with it. Every time I see the name, it grounds me in what matters most.
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